Linda Maher, owner of Avalon Massage & Wellness, provides massage therapy to Dan Von County News/Ruth Ann Hager
Ruden while Chris Olson sits beside him in the living room.
By RUTH ANN HAGER Staff Writer
WASECA — Linda Maher finally understands why she survived a devastating crash on Highway 14 in 2001. She didn’t exactly know what her doctor meant when he told her, “God wanted you to live.”
Now she said, “I found my purpose.”
Her purpose, she said, is to bring comfort to the 30 developmentally disabled people who are now her regular clients.
Five years ago when Maher purchased Avalon Massage & Wellness in downtown Waseca, six of her clients were developmentally disabled. When she visited their residences, Maher would announce her arrival, “It’s The Massage Lady,” because that is what they called her.
The name stuck and that’s how Maher continues to announce her arrival.
Just inside the front door of the Elm Homes residence she visited Thursday, one of her clients was at her side before she could take her coat off.
“Who wants to go first?” she asked Chris Olson and Dan Von Ruden.
Von Ruden, the older of the two men, graciously allowed Olson to be the first to receive his massage.
Seated in front of a television in the family room, Olson alternately smiles and frowns as Maher massages his head, shoulders and hands.
“Good job, Chris. Good job,” she tells him.
Half an hour later, Maher moves to the living room where she massages Von Ruden’s arthritic hands and knees, his shoulders, neck and head.
“Does that help?” Maher asks. Von Ruden says it does, then tells her about his plans to go ice fishing.
“They know I’m safe,” she said about the comfort level she has developed with her clients.
Maher holds a BA; she is a trained Reiki Master and is trained in Comfort Touch, which was developed for Hospice and the elderly.
“When I learned Comfort Touch, I found a way to access this needy population. They have responded with many stories of love and appreciation. My Comfort Touch instructor encouraged me to write about my work. She was also important in getting my thoughts published for the massage and body workers who receive Massage & Bodywork,” she said.
In the January/February issue of Massage and Bodywork, Maher writes about her experiences in an article titled “Stabilizing Touch - Massage for Developmentally Disabled Clients,” which runs alongside a piece by her instructor, Mary Kathleen Rose. Maher said it is an honor for her to find her name in print.
She writes that massaging the developmentally disabled can make a huge difference in their lives. And while the work is demanding physically, spiritually and emotionally, for her it is a labor of love.
“It is more important that the recipients of loving touch be recognized as people who can provide more than what has been customarily expected,” Maher said. “I have learned so much from them. They have given me so much love in return.”
After Maher completed Von Ruden’s massage last week, he was invited next door for supper.
“A resident of that home also has arthritis. He looked at me and said, ‘Good. Linda can make me feel better.’”
Although he wasn’t scheduled for a treatment, Maher worked his hands.
“As I finished working, Dan stepped into the living room. He walked in front of me flexing his left knee, ‘my knee feels better.’ Then the two arthritic men started to discuss their treatment and what I did when I worked with them,” Maher said.
“It was one of many moments that make me smile. Working with this population is both humbling and rewarding.”
Maher’s article on Developmentally Disabled Clients may be read at www.massageandbodywork.com
Ruth Ann Hager is at 507- 837-5446 or rhager@wasecacountynews.com.
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By: DieselFitter on 1/12/10
You GO girl !! Keep on truckin. From a fellow zaney, LM massage fanatic. "I don't know what I'd do without your help to keep this old body moving". Thanks SO much.